Al Weisel

The 10 Essential Romance Films

By Al Weisel
CDNOW Senior Editor, Movies

The most popular subject for literature, popular songs, and the movies is love. Romance has been the theme of some of the most beloved movies ever made. But a great romantic film is not only about two people falling in love, it also creates a heightened atmosphere around these characters, letting the audience feel a bit of what the characters feel, that they are somehow on a different plane of existence. A filmmaker might accomplish this through dialogue that's more poetic or wittier than normal conversation or by placing the lovers in exotic settings or by photographing them in a particularly beautiful way. A successful romantic film is realistic enough that the audience can identify with the characters but at the same time might have the quality of a dream.

But while romance films may often show an idealized world, that doesn't mean the lovers will live happily ever after. Some of the most engaging love stories tragically don't work out. Often this poignant end is evident right from the beginning, and what makes these films so moving is how the lovers struggle against circumstances. Some of these films are set in wartime or other trying periods in history or are between people who come from such divergent backgrounds that the very fact that they are able to bridge their differences in the first place is a triumph. In recent years a number of films dealing with gay romances have featured characters who must deal with the added problem of the disapprobation of less enlightened members of society in such films as My Beautiful Laundrette, Get Real, and Beautiful Thing, while other films, such as Ali: Fear Eats the Soul have dealt with the once taboo subject of interracial romance.


1. Brief Encounter (1946)
Director David Lean takes a simple story of two unextraordinary, middle-class people and transforms it into a grand operatic tragedy of lost love. Laughing in smoky cafés, running through rainswept streets, and kissing amidst the billowing steam of locomotives racing by, the lovers, a housewife (Celia Johnson) and a doctor (Trevor Howard), savor their brief moments of bliss set to the romantic music of Rachmaninoff, before circumstances intervene.
Brief Encounter
2. Casablanca (1942)
As World War II rages around them, Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman recall their brief affair and try to recapture the past in a gin joint in Morocco. Bogart's cynical café owner, Rick, must choose between rekindling his love with Bergman's Ilsa or doing the noble thing and help her leave Casablanca with her idealistic husband (Paul Henreid). From its crackling dialogue to its evocative settings (the café with its whirling ceiling fans, the foggy runway) Casablanca is a perfectly crafted film from its first line to its last.
Casablanca
3. Gone with the Wind (1939)
Played out against the backdrop of the Civil War, this epic story based on Margaret Mitchell's bestselling novel is full of outsize set pieces and larger-than-life characters. Only characters as big as Clark Gable's cynical war profiteer Rhett Butler and Vivien Leigh's scheming southern belle Scarlet O'Hara would not get lost in a film that contains such monumental scenes as the Burning of Atlanta. One of the most popular movies ever made, Gone With the Wind is Hollywood at its most extravagant and entertaining.
Gone With The Wind
4. Beauty and the Beast (1946)
One of the most beautiful films ever made, Beauty and the Beast, directed by poet Jean Cocteau, unfolds like a dream. When Belle wanders into the enchanted castle of a prince who has been turned into a beast, candelabras held by living hands coming out of the walls light up as she walks by. At first repelled by the beast, she soon learns to love him. Shot in gorgeous black and white, Beauty and the Beast is one of the finest examples of what's been called the "magic of cinema."
Beauty and the Beast
5. Annie Hall (1977)
Using flashbacks, animation, and fantasy sequences Woody Allen tells the semi-autobiographical story of a love affair between a stand-up comic and a singer (Diane Keaton) from the beginning of their relationship to its bittersweet end. Uproariously funny and deeply sad, Allen's most personal film comes closer to illuminating what makes two people fall in and out of love than any film ever made.
Annie Hall
6. Wings of Desire (1987)
Made two years before the fall of the Berlin Wall, Wim Wenders' magical film, about angels who overlook the divided city and listen silently to the secret thoughts of its inhabitants, is shot in sumptuous black and white when we are seeing the angels' point of view, and color when we are among the living. When one angel falls in love with a circus performer, he sheds his wings to be with her. This lyrical film features soaring camera work that looks as if it were shot by angels; a poetic, moving script; and a touching cameo by the very human and funny Peter Falk, playing himself.
Wings of Desire
7. The Philadelphia Story (1940)
This witty romantic comedy stars the edgy Katherine Hepburn as a spoiled Philadelphia Main Liner, suave Cary Grant as her socialite ex-husband, and down-to-earth Jimmy Stewart as a gossip magazine reporter who helps Hepburn find her heart. Director George Cukor brings out the best in his actors and strikes the perfect balance between the clever screenplay's screwball comedy and classy social satire.
Philadelphia Story
8. Roman Holiday (1953)
This story of a cynical but ultimately chivalrous reporter (Gregory Peck) who spends a few days with a beautiful young Princess (Audrey Hepburn) amidst the photogenic sights of Rome, is a modern fairy tale. Hepburn won an Oscar for this, her starring debut, as the vulnerable but graceful young princess who gets one brief fling at a normal life before duty calls her.
Roman Holiday
9. The Way We Were (1973)
It would be hard to think of two people more different than the WASPy jock writer and left-wing Jewish agitator whose love affair from the Depression through the McCarthy era is the subject of this film, or for that matter, the actors who play them, Robert Redford and Barbra Streisand. But it's the frisson caused by those differences that make this story so engaging -- and so tragic when it all falls apart. With Streisand's haunting title song and its melancholy, nostalgic coda, The Way We Were will have your tear ducts working overtime.
The Way We Were
10. The Crying Game (1992)
Neil Jordan's film about the relationship between an IRA terrorist and a torch singer is not your usual love story. Although the film was renowned for the "secret" that puts this affair in a whole new light, the message of the film is much deeper than a plot gimmick. Love and desire, the film says, cannot be contained within the simple boundaries that the more conservative elements of our society try to circumscribe around them.
Crying Game

Al Weisel is the co-author, with Larry Frascella, of Live Fast, Die Young: The Wild Ride of Making Rebel Without a Cause, being published in October 2005.

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